May 2024 Newsletter

CDS May 2024 Newsletter

May 2024 Newsletter

 

CDS Training Institute

 

Upcoming Trainings

 

The Power of Dialogue - Creating Supportive Spaces to Talk About Israel and Palestine

May 28, 4:00-6:00pm, on Zoom

Trainer: Shira May

Donations of $25 are requested, but not required. Click here to donate: https://www.cdsadr.org/?q=donate

 

In this second session of our continuing "Power of Dialogue" workshop series, Dr. Shira May will share her experiences both as a participant and as a facilitator of dialogue about Israel and Palestine. We will explore a variety of tools that peacemakers can draw from when addressing this topic, including de-escalation, Nonviolent Communication, affinity groups, and restorative practices. Using a Talking Circle format, participants will have the opportunity to share their experiences and plan next steps for promoting meaningful dialogue in their families, workplaces, and communities.

 

Registration in advance is required: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZMpf-uvrj8pEtJfJOvNqxwpu78D3ziWYxPP

 

 

Basic Mediation Training - NEW DATES

September 30 - October 2, October 9 - October 10

Notre Dame Retreat House, Canandaigua

Trainer: Kim Reisch

$200 for those accepted as volunteers at CDS; $1,000 for the general public

 

This 35-hour training introduces participants to the Transformative mediation framework to prepare them to mediate community disputes as well as to become a volunteer with the Center for Dispute Settlement.

 

For more information or to register, contact Ronalyn Pollack: rpollack@cdsadr.org

 

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Thank you to our Sponsors

of the KAIROS Blanket Exercise/

Witness to Injustice

 

On April 18, CDS staff, board, volunteers, and community members attended the KAIROS Blanket Exercise/Witness to Injustice, facilitated by Neighbors of the Onondaga Nation (NOON).

 

Through the use of meaningful quotes and blankets that represent part of Turtle Island (the Western hemisphere), we explored this shared history that non-native people rarely learn in school or other settings.

 

Thank you to our generous sponsors for helping make this event possible:

 

Joe Brown

Parris Bryant II

Jonathan Ferris

Amy Stornello

Rochester Area Community Foundation

 

For more information, visit: https://peacecouncil.net/sites/default/files/WitnessToInjusticeBrochure.pdf

ACR-GNY

Annual Conference

June 4-7, 2024

Hybrid: NYC and Online

 

The annual Association for Conflict Resolution, Greater New York Chapter (ACR-GNY) Conference is an opportunity for conflict resolution professionals, volunteers, and students to share ideas, promote best practices, and make networking connections throughout their areas within and outside the field of alternative dispute resolution (ADR).

 

One of the conference presenters will be CDS President/CEO Shira May, who will be presenting on the topic of "Developing Restorative Champions on College Campuses" on June 6th at 10:50am.

 

CDS is proud to be an organizational sponsor of this event and will provide free registrations for up to 15 staff and volunteers to attend the conference.

 

For more information, visit: https://www.acrgny.org/event-5666951

Dedication of Livingston County

Mediation Room in Honor of Letitia Rosenthal

May is Mental Health Awareness Month

by Subrata Paul, Program Manager, Cayuga County

 

Mental health plays a vital role in our overall health, encompassing emotional, psychological, and social wellbeing. It can affect how we think, feel, and act. This can influence our daily lives, relationships, and productivity. Mental health encompasses mental health challenges as well as  the presence of positive characteristics such as resilience and coping skills.

 

Sometimes, people might feel worried about asking for help because they are afraid of what others might think or react. This can exacerbate their condition and prevent them from getting the support they need.

 

 

Awareness of mental health challenges can impact the stigma surrounding mental illness and encourage open conversations about those challenges. This helps foster understanding, compassion, and support. Well-known and respected figures are starting to discuss their own struggles with mental health, including author John Green, Olympic gymnast Simone Biles, Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps, and activist Tarana Burke. By sharing their stories, they help reduce stigma and help people see that it's okay to ask for help when they need it.

 

Besides learning and talking about mental health, it is also important to take proactive measures to promote mental well-being through self-care and prioritizing one’s own needs. Community support is also instrumental in promoting mental health and well-being, whether that is through peer support, online forums, or local organizations.

 

Mental Health Awareness month also serves to help empower individuals and organizations to advocate for policy changes, increased funding for mental health services, and improved access to care.

 

For those wanting to learn more about how they can help friends and family who may be having mental health challenges, SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) has a toolkit (www.samhsa.gov/mental-health-awareness-month/toolkit) which includes respectful language in having conversations. In addition, they host a symposium for older adult mental health challenges (www.samhsa.gov/mental-health-awareness-month).

If you are needing help with your own mental health challenges, reach out to your physician, family, and friends. Other resources include NAMI-NY (naminys.org/resources/) which include a helpline, resources and program.

 

 

Mental Health Awareness Month is a time to raise awareness, provide support, and break the stigma surrounding mental health conditions. The commitment to mental health does not end with the month of May but is an ongoing journey that requires effort, compassion, and advocacy year-round. By continuing to prioritize mental health wellbeing and expand access to care, we can create a world where everyone has the opportunity to thrive mentally, emotionally, and psychologically.

Volunteer of the Month:

Mary Lou Kernahan

 

Mary Lou Kernahan took both of our Basic Mediation Training and Custody and Visitation Trainings in Bath NY-Steuben County in the summer of 2023.

 

She completed her apprenticeship and became certified in December of 2023.

 

According to Mary Lou:



I was so excited to see the ad for volunteer mediators in our Steuben County Penny Saver! Since my retirement, I had been searching for a way to "give back" that would benefit others as well as myself. I have to admit that the first day of training, I wasn't sure it was for me. I'm so glad I continued as I am now a certified mediator with CDS and have a real sense of being needed and helping others.

 

Many people come in with mixed emotions-fear, anxiety, anger. After all, they are trying to make the best decisions the most important people in their lives, their children! I try to make them feel as comfortable as possible with a smile and a cheery "hello". Fortunately, most leave with an agreement that works for them and their children.

 

Something to know about me is that I love gardening, reading and long drives in the countryside.

 

I am so grateful for this opportunity and encourage others to consider becoming a mediator.



Thank you, Center for Dispute Settlement!

 

Mary Lou Kernahan

On April 24, we celebrated Administrative Professionals Day with a staff lunch and spring-themed art project to honor our administrative team members:

 

Danielle Betts, Director of Finance/Operations

Bonnie Feeney, Accounting Clerk

Dorethea Jackson-Smith, Executive/Program Assistant

 

Your dedication and hard work do not go unnoticed. Thank you for your unwavering support, positivity, and all around awesomeness!

 

 

May Diversity Calendar 2024

 

If a holiday begins the evening before, we will mark it with an asterisk (*) below.

 

May is National Military Appreciation Month, dedicated to people who are currently serving in the United States military.

 

May 5 - Cinco de Mayo

Cinco de Mayo is a yearly celebration to celebrate Mexico's victory over the Second French Empire at the Battle of Puebla in 1862

 

May 6 - Yom Hashoah*

Holocaust Remembrance Day is observed as Israel's day of commemoration for the approximately six million Jews murdered in the Holocaust by Nazi Germany

 

May 15 - Nakba Day

Commemorates the Nakba, also known as the Palestinian Catastrophe, which comprised the permanent displacement of a majority of the Palestinian people in 1948

 

May 17 – International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia

This annual day hopes to raise awareness of issues relating to the LGBTQ+ community.

 

May 19 – Malcolm X’s Birthday

The well-known Muslim minister and human rights activist helped advance civil rights as an advocate for Black empowerment. He was assassinated in 1965.

 

May 28, 2024 - Ascension of Bahá’u’lláh

This day marks the passing of Bahá’u’lláh, the founder of the Baháʼí  faith, in 1892.

 

Source: diversityresources.com/diversity-calendar-2024/

 
 

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