December 2022 Newsletter

December 2022 Newsletter

Message From Our President/CEO

 

With this approaching holiday season, I want to offer my heartfelt gratitude to our staff, board, volunteers, clients, and community partners for being part of our community of peacemakers.

 

As the end of the year approaches, I am reflecting on the trends we've seen in 2022, and what they mean for our field of dispute resolution.

 

This year has seen alarming escalations of violence across the world, including the Russian invasion of Ukraine. This year is likely to be the 2nd highest year for mass shootings in the U.S., with Uvalde, Buffalo, and Colorado Springs to name but a few. Hate crimes are on the rise for the fourth consecutive year. And this year saw the historic overturning of Roe v. Wade and continuing concerns about the erosion of civil rights protections.

 

At the same time, 2022 has also seen historic triumphs that, while often not as visible, have impacted our world for the better. Ketanji Brown Jackson became the first Black woman on the U.S. Supreme Court. Conversion therapy was banned in all of Canada. The vaccine-sharing program COVAX delivered over 1 billion doses to poorer nations around the world. Ten nations committed to a network of marine conservation areas — called the 'Great Blue Wall' — with the goal of protecting 30% of the oceans by 2030. Over 500 acres of California redwood forest were returned to a group of 10 Native tribal nations. Just to name a few.

 

As peacemakers, we have the powerful ability to see opportunity in the midst of conflict, to find hope in the midst of challenge. As a community dispute resolution center, part of our role is to imbue a sense of resilience and empowerment within the communities that we serve. We know that strong, connected communities can withstand, and even thrive through even the most challenging of crises. It is up to us, whether we want to contribute to more despair, or be part of the change, hope, and resilience that will lead to more goodness, peace, and love.

 

May the new year bring opportunities for good news, in our own lives, and across our planet.

 

In peace,

 

Shira May

President/CEO

 

P.S. - We are thrilled to announce our upcoming 50th Anniversary Gala -

see the Save the Date below. Our keynote speaker will be none other than Andrew Thomas, who served the Center as President/CEO for 26 years. More details to come as we kick off our 50th year in January, 2023!

Sponsorship Opportunities for the

50th Anniversary Gala

 

Would you like to make a significant contribution to creating more

peaceful communities?

 

We are inviting individuals, businesses, and organizations to share in our celebration by sponsoring this special event.

 

Sponsorship opportunities range from $1,000 to $2,500.

Your company's logo will be included in our program, promotional materials, and social media.

 

Please contact djackson@cdsadr.org for more information



 

glasses-lady-stare.jpgSpotlight on:

Conflict Skills

in the Workplace

 

 

 

Have you experienced any of these situations at work?

 

  • Aggressive co-workers
  • Bullying
  • Disrespect
  • Microaggressions
  • Not getting credit for your work
  • Micromanagement
  • Lack of transparency
  • Lack of opportunities for creativity and innovation
  • Lack of collaboration and communication

 

Situations such as these and other types of conflict at work can lead to many negative outcomes, including low morale, high rates of turnover, low productivity, and adverse mental health and physical health outcomes.

 

On the other hand, workplaces that invest in conflict skills trainings are more likely to see benefits including increased morale, better organizational performance, increased creativity and innovation, reduced conflict, and enhanced problem-solving skills.

 

The Center is proud to offer a range of trainings specifically geared for workplace teams:

 

Conflict Skills

 

Conflict Resolution is a constructive approach to interpersonal and inter-group conflicts that helps people with opposing positions work together to arrive at mutually acceptable solutions. This interactive curriculum –

·        Identifies personal styles of conflict management

·        Examine beliefs and attitudes about conflict resolution

·        Explores the use of effective communication as a means of resolving conflict

·        Examines various methods used in conflict resolution

·        Examines conflict and how it relates to everyday life

 

Implicit Bias

 

This workshop is designed to promote greater awareness of inclusion and equity in respect to race, culture, gender and gender identity, age, cognitive/physical ability, religious affinity and any other “isms” that deter equity in and inclusion at the individual, institutional and systemic levels. This curriculum reflects current innovative and evidence-based research that exposes the unconscious nature of bias and its effects on our thinking, decisions and actions. As a result of this training participants will –

 

·        Understand biases as a natural human attribute in response to stimuli/triggers and recognize the differences between implicit bias, stereotyping, and explicit bias.

·        Recognize the cultural and societal imprints that can shape biases and foster personal behaviors such as micro aggressions which can negatively impact personal and workplace relationships

·        Recognize the impact biases can have in employee service delivery to the communities they seek to serve 

 

Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, & Belonging (DEIB)

 

The Center’s DEIB workshop series is designed to create safe, brave, and supportive spaces for participants to engage in self-reflection and dialogue about the topics of diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging. These topics can stir up difficult emotions, and participants are often afraid of “saying the wrong thing,” which can often shut down conversation. As certified mediators, our trainers use proven, effective techniques for responding to heightened emotions that frequently come up during these discussions. Differences of opinion are approached as an opportunity for learning, empowerment, and recognition of each other’s humanity. This workshop series includes four 2-hour workshops on the following topics:

 

·        Introduction to Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging (DEIB)

·        Identity and Self-Awareness

·        Power and Privilege

·        Implicit Bias and Microaggressions

 

Individual Consultation



Individuals may find that they need intensive, individualized support as they navigate interpersonal situations. Center staff can provide one-on-one consultation on topics including: conflict management, self-awareness, leadership, implicit bias, diversity/equity/inclusion, and other topics as needed.

 

All of our trainings can be customized to meet the needs of your team. Contact Ronalyn Pollack, Director of Training and Community Engagement, to learn more:

rpollack@cdsadr.org; 585-546-5110 ext. 113

Update from our

Racial Equity Leadership Committee (RELC)

 

Season's Greetings from the Racial Equity Leadership Committee! 

 

As 2022 winds to a close, we'd like to reflect on some of the work we've done this year toward our goals. 

 

Education and Training

 

One of our goals was to do exactly what we are doing with this article: publish something every month in the CDS newsletter, keeping you apprised of our progress. We were able to begin in November 2022 with an update on the Interrupt Racism cohort, which is a year-long training in anti-racist work that began on March 8 with the Interrupters Conference. 

 

We have uploaded articles to the staff portal - not in one block, but integrating diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB) content throughout each section. Doing it in this way reflects that DEIB is not just a special segment of our work here at CDS, but is part and parcel of how we operate. 

 

We have shared external trainings and workshops throughout the year as they have become available. We encourage everyone to look at these opportunities as they come through and decide whether they would be of use to you in your DEIB journey. 

 

Encouraging and Supporting Dialogue

 

We have completed a series of small group dialogue circles among our staff members. These dialogue circles were meant to foster discussion about DEIB topics, such as identity, microaggressions, and implicit bias. Shira sent out a survey seeking feedback on these circles, and we hope to be able to share more with you in the very near future. 

 

The staff retreat went forward in October 26. It was not only a fun break from everyday activities, it was an opportunity to come together and discuss our new Nondiscrimination Policy. 

 

Evaluation of Policies and Practices

 

Reviews and revisions to the Employee Handbook are still ongoing. To this date, we have revised the dress code, social media policy, and various benefits policies, and written a Nondiscrimination Policy. 

 

Reviews and revisions to staff and volunteer recruitment and hiring practices are ongoing. We have begun to post pay rates with our job opportunities in an effort to bring transparency into the process. 

 

We have scheduled time to discuss an Agency Land Acknowledgement, which we can put on our website as well as read at Agency gatherings. In addition, we will work to develop relationships with Indigenous communities. 

 

2023 Awaits

 

We hope you will continue to place your faith in us as we work toward a better future for CDS. Look for Subrata Paul's contribution in January about our future work. 

 

We wish you all the best for the coming new year!

 

Michelle Mitchell and Maia Taub, Co-Chairs

Shira May, President and CEO

Staff Updates

 

  • Welcome to Talaiyjah Hughes, our new Case Manager in the Monroe County Custody and Visitation program!

 

  • WE ARE HIRING for the following positions:

 

  • Grants/Contracts Manager (Part-time)

 

  • Restorative Practices Coordinator (Full-time)

 

Contact Kim Stowell for more information: kstowell@cdsadr.org



 

Holiday Open House

 

Center staff, volunteers, board members, and community partners gathered at our Rochester office on Tuesday, December 6th to enjoy friendships, food, games, and even an unexpected burst of communal singing!

 

Thank you to Dorethea Jackson-Smith and Kim Stowell for the festive decorations and delicious provisions!

 

 

 

 

Happy Holidays from Your Friends at the

Center for Dispute Settlement

 

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